rantcaseygotoutofhere: johnnydontcry: Be careful, your nice guy syndrome is showing. yes because HOW DARE A GIRL just want to be your friend, all girls obviously HAVE to like you back cause you’re SO NICE AND SPECIAL AND PERFECT AND OBVIOUSLY THE BEST FOR HER. Girls aren’t allowed to like whoever they want, they have to like you because you’re special and nice!11!!! If you write stuff like that you aren’t a ‘good guy’, you’re a stupid loser. I’d also like to point out that guys do this exact. same. fucking. thing. Do you know how many guys I was really good friends with who were in relationships with some bitch and/or pining away after one? Several. Stop acting like you’re entitled to a relationship with this girl just because you think you’ve paid your dues. If your friendship turns into something more than friends, great! If it doesn’t, count it as a loss, and move the fuck on. Just because you’re friends with someone doesn’t mean they’re obligated to date you, jesus.

rantcaseygotoutofhere:

johnnydontcry:

Be careful, your nice guy syndrome is showing.

yes because HOW DARE A GIRL just want to be your friend, all girls obviously HAVE to like you back cause you’re SO NICE AND SPECIAL AND PERFECT AND OBVIOUSLY THE BEST FOR HER. Girls aren’t allowed to like whoever they want, they have to like you because you’re special and nice!11!!!

If you write stuff like that you aren’t a ‘good guy’, you’re a stupid loser.

I’d also like to point out that guys do this exact. same. fucking. thing.

Do you know how many guys I was really good friends with who were in relationships with some bitch and/or pining away after one?

Several.

Stop acting like you’re entitled to a relationship with this girl just because you think you’ve paid your dues. If your friendship turns into something more than friends, great! If it doesn’t, count it as a loss, and move the fuck on. Just because you’re friends with someone doesn’t mean they’re obligated to date you, jesus.